BlogMy Favorite Memories of 2014
by Johanna Leonard
This is the time of year when we often reflect on the previous year to hopefully improve ourselves for the New Year. In the past week or so, I began to think about the top five experiences that I had at The Lake Merritt in 2014.
There were so many amazing events that I considered for the slots two through five. Our fabulous Oscar Night; the Chinese New Year party; a reading by Oakland's Youth Poet Laureate; the publication of our community's first compilation of fiction and non fiction from our residents, Writers of Merritt; and presenting the top seven City of Oakland mayoral candidates in September and October. I could go on and on!
But there is no question in my mind of the top experience I had at The Lake Merritt in 2014 was a conversation that emerged from our weekly discussion group “Topic of the Week.” This group of residents chooses to discuss a variety of topics, but we mainly converse about politics and current events.
Several months ago, we read an article from the New York Times about the difficulties that America’s women's colleges were having with the concept of transgender students. There were so many questions they had to consider. For example, how would the college administration handle it when a woman student or faculty member was transgendering to become a male or if a man was transgendering to become a female? Should a women's college accept a women transgendering to male? It was a very thought provoking article and generated a lively discussion! The group empathized with both the women students at the college and those were transgenders. But this was just the background for my favorite experience of the year. During the discussion, one of our residents, a gay man, noted that he was so pleased to be having this discussion. He said that he did not know many places where this topic could be so thoughtfully discussed. He told me that in all of his years he had never lived in a community where he felt so accepted for who he was. He is 65 year old. I left that conversation with a huge smile on my face thinking how lucky I was to make a difference in someone's life.
(Of special note: “Of the nation's 119 single-sex colleges for men or women, Mills College in Oakland is apparently the only campus that explicitly lets applicants choose a gender and be considered for enrollment - if that choice is female.” - San Francisco Chronicle – 8/21/14.)
Come Taste Restaurant Week at The Terrace Room
by Johanna Leonard
The Lake Merritt is a unique community in many aspects, from our building’s landmark status to its customized transportation, but what really sets us apart from the other retirement and senior communities is that The Terrace Room Restaurant & Bar is, and always has been, open to the public.
Today is the beginning of Restaurant Week in the City of Oakland. It runs from January 15th to January 25th. I would hazard a guess that The Lake Merritt is the only restaurant situated in a community for older adults that has ever participated in Oakland’s Restaurant Week! In fact, we have participated for several years. Restaurant Week is a celebration of the culinary scene in the City of Oakland, which has always been strong, but over the past several years has really exploded.
Our community dines in The Terrace Room Restaurant & Bar along with our regulars from the community, downtown businesses, and the general public. The intergenerational demographics during a weekend brunch can range from two years old to ninety-two years young. Having our restaurant open to the public has really permitted our Chef to offer quality dining options and a wide variety of menu choices to our residents, their family members and friends.
Take advantage of Oakland’s Restaurant Week! We’re offering a prix fixe menu for $30, plus tax and gratuity.
Roasted Wild Mushroom Tart
Roasted North Coast Chanterelle Mushroom and Caramelized Shallots
on House Made Puff Pastry Glazed with a Thyme Beurre Blanc
Poached Pear Salad
Baby Red Oak Leaf with a Sweet Poached Pear, Candied Walnuts,
and Point Reyes Bleu Cheese with a Pomegranate Vinaigrette
Chicken Breast Roulade Stuffed with Carrots and Leeks served
over a Crispy Potato Cake with both Dijon and Pear Demi Sauces
Fresh Dungeness Crab, Mussels, and Calamari in a Rich Tomato Broth
with Fennel and Poblano Chiles served over Toasted Sourdough
Lake Merritt Swan
Swan Profiterole filled with TCHO Chocolate Mousse
on a Pool of Creme Anglaise
Please join us for lunch or dinner and enjoy our Chef’s special creations for this week. The great thing about The Terrace Room Restaurant is that you do not have to be a resident to dine here, but considering the alternatives, you might just fantasize about living at The Lake Merritt someday! Bon Appetite!
Bringing in the New Year in Style
by Johanna Leonard
Happy New Year! The Lake Merritt was a happening place as we welcomed in 2015 last Wednesday. To celebrate the evening, The Lake Merritt hosted a sophisticated dinner party for residents as well as many family members and friends.
Our lovely soiree began with cocktails and live music from pianist and crooner Rodney Bell who performed jazz standards in the lobby on the baby grand piano. Our own Programming Coordinator, Ryan Wilcox, accompanied Rodney Bell on his guitar.
We then all sat down for a spectacular seven-course meal orchestrated by our Chef de Cuisine Todd Fisher and his staff who enjoyed showing off their experience with French cuisine.
Pinot Noir Poached Pear with Mincemeat with a Red Oak Lettuce Bouquet
Dungeness Crab Bisque in a Sourdough Bowl
Blood Orange Granita
Rosemary Prawn Brochette with Taro Chips & Dried Tomato Oil
Lamb Medallion with Potato Quiche & Glazed Baby Carrots
Bleu Cheese & Pomegranate Crostini
Chocolate Ganache Triangles
It was a fun party! The Terrace Room echoed with laughter and friendship. Although it was initially difficult to get everyone's attention, our Master of Ceremony, Ryan Wilcox, led a toast to our wonderful community, our excellent service staff, and especially gave thanks to Chef Todd and his crew - Ryan, Erika, Julian, and Gerald - for such a memorable meal.
Near the bewitching hour, we returned to the lobby to count down the evening and finally sang the traditional "Auld Lang Syne." Many expressions of "Happy New Year" were wished for one and all accompanied with hugs and kisses to thank them for their friendships in the past year. As January begins and we step into the future, we wish a Happy New Year to all and offer our best wishes for a fruitful 2015.
Hanukkah Lights Shine for the Holidays
by Johanna Leonard
Shabbat is Seth's Bar Mitzvah Project
The Lake Merritt celebrated Hanukkah in 2014 with a Shabbat service and special candle lighting ceremony. One Friday per month, The Lake Merritt is pleased to have Seth Browbosky and his mother, Cantor Ilene Keyes from Temple Sinai in Oakland come to our community to lead a Shabbat service. Seth guides our gathering of residents and friends in songs and prayers as part of his Bar Mitzvah project. In the Jewish faith, Shabbat begins at sundown Friday evenings and ends Saturday night with the appearance of the first three stars. It is primarily a time of rest and spirtual enrichment.
Hanukkah Lights Shine for the Holidays
This month, we combined our Shabbat service with a candle lighting ceremony to celebrate the Festival of Lights or as more commonly known, Hanukkah. The Festival of Lights celebrates two great events - the defeat of the Syrian-Greeks so that Jews were able to return to the Temple in Jerusalem and a miraculous happening in which a day's supply of oil kept temple lamps lit for eight consecutive nights. Now, more than 2,200 year later, Hanukkah is commemorated "with the lighting of a special candelabrum called the menorah or chanukiah which has nine branches. The holiday is also celebrated with special foods and games and with the giving of gifts." At The Lake Merritt, many of our residents brought their own menorahs, and we all lit the candles and sang traditional hymns recalling the miracles of Hanukkah.
Our combined celebration of Shabbat and Hanukkah concluded with a traditional meal of beef brisket, potato latkes served on a bed of applesauce with a dollop of sour cream on top, and chocolate decadence cake.
Source from The Little Book of Jewish Celebrations by Ronald Tauber.
Annual Holiday Party - A Quacking Good Time
by Johanna Leonard
On November 30th, The Lake Merritt welcomed in the holiday season! For the third year in a row, Randall and Cheryl Berger, the owners of The Lake Merritt, invited all of the residents, as well as their family and friends, to be their guests for a fantastic holiday dinner to thank them for making The Lake Merritt such a success.
With a 12-foot tall decorated Christmas tree, along with holiday lighting and music adorning the entryway and lobby, over 160 people entered The Terrace Room to celebrate the tastes and fellowship of the season. Our chef sliced prime rib “to order” and also offered delicious grilled salmon accompanied by green beans, mashed potatoes, and ratatouille. Wine and beer were available for interested parties and holiday cookies, coffee and delectable hot chocolate rounded out the evening.
The Bergers decided to do something new this year and added a photo booth. Guests were encouraged to have fun with family members to pose for a holiday photo. The technology was so up to date that guests left the party with their photos (and a link to a website to print even more) – providing all those who had "fun with props" a unique memento of each family’s get together. WOW! What fun!
What no one knew was that they were in for a special treat. Randy Berger had made a commitment to our own Community Relations Director, Diane Broch, that he would perform his award-winning bird calls for the party. Randy’s rendition of the five-part call of the Marila Americana (more commonly known as the “Red-Headed Duck”) was the winner of the prestigious Piedmont High School Leonard J. Waxdeck Annual Bird Calling Contest in 1973. It was so unique “back in the day” that the highschooler’s performance (enhanced during his teen years by an incredible red-headed Afro hairdo) was featured on the CBS Evening News with Walter Cronkite and NBC Nightly News with John Chancellor and many other media outlets. Now over 40 years later, we laughed at the duck’s many antics and the fantastic sounds Randy made to bring the duck to life! Here's
a photo of Randy’s 1973 performance which is part of the Oakland Museum’s permanent collection.
As the evening wound down, Randy, Cheryl and I (in my role as Executive Director) introduced members of the staff, from the kitchen to the front office. As members of the staff came forward and stepped into the limelight, they were greeted with rounds of applause. We joined with the audience in expressing our appreciation to all who have worked so hard on behalf of our residents in 2014.
As our party-goers said goodbye with many hugs, I heard it said over and over again how this year’s Holiday party was the best one yet! Here's a toast to our fabulous residents, families, and friends and to a happy holiday season!
Photo from The Oakland Tribune Collection, the Oakland Museum of California. Gift of ANG Newspapers. Photographer Jim Edelen 1973.
Our Tree of Thanks
by Johanna Leonard
This is the time of year that we try to hit the pause button in our lives to give thanks to the people, places and things that make our life so rich and so worth living. For the second year in a row, The Lake Merritt has encouraged residents, families, friends and employees to express their thankfulness on our Tree of Thanks. When completed with hand-written messages, this five foot high tree is a stunning picture of fall, covered in leaves of yellow and orange. It is our hope that our seasonal visitors along with members of community select a leaf or two from our Concierge desk and add their messages of thanks to the tree.
Last year, we had a full tree of wonderful leaves. I wanted to share several of them with you to remind us of the memories and appreciations which make us happy and life so enjoyable.
I am grateful to have this refuge from the storm
I am grateful for the here and now...my Oakland family....the world outside my window and the people here who make it possible.
I am grateful for still walking around this beautiful lake and environs
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!! From all of us to you and your families.
Halloween was Maleficent
by Johanna Leonard
Look more closely, now. Can you tell the difference between the letters in the names of Butterfinger and Kit Kat bars? If you can, you might have been the “big winner” of candies and prizes in The Lake Merritt’s Halloween game, “Ransom Note!” created by Ryan our Program Coordinator. Tapping into their inner sleuths, residents of The Lake Merritt hailed this game as “the most fun” of our special selection of bewitching holiday party games.
Halloween was also swinging good time for everyone! Retro-swing band leader Lavay Smith and the Red Hot Skillet Lickers played in the Terrrace Room. Leading “one of the top swingin’ jazz and blues bands in the world,” Lavay is an internationally recognized diva with a singing style influenced by Billie Holiday, Dinah Washington, Bessie Smith, Little Esther Phillips and other legendary greats." (Check out the Terrace Room’s live music on Thursday and Friday nights.)
Plus, many residents, staff and patrons showed their creativity by attending as costumed characters! There was a fabulous witch, a Charlie Chaplin look alike, and many heads peeked above feather boas. The costume contest finalists were: a Biblical era shepherd, a Whoopi Goldberg nun from the movie Sister Act and Maleficent from Sleeping Beauty. These were three wonderful costume from three different age groups, I might add (30s, 40-50s and over 75). I personally thought our resident Norma should have won as the shepherd, but Malificient stole the award. The evening’s specialty cocktail was "The Root of All Evil." The recipe includes absinthe, root beer with a bit of star anise. I heard it was witch-ily potent!
What is Paul McCartney's middle name?
Join Us for Trivia Night
by Ryan Wilcox
When you walk into a senior community, you don't expect to hear the cheers and laughter of 20-somethings, baby boomers, and older adults having fun together. But if you walk into The Lake Merritt on a Monday night, chances are that's what you will hear. The reason? It's Trivia Night at The Terrace Room.
For more than a year, The Lake Merritt has been hosting its own "pub quiz" every other Monday evening. Our Trivia Night is a popular game in which teams of people pool their brainpower to answer fascinating and often comical questions posed by a duo of zany quizmasters. The winners earn prizes and glory and there are sometimes surprise goodies and entertainment thrown in.
The duo responsible for this event is a pair of college buddies and trivia connoisseurs - yours truly (Ryan Wilcox, Programming Director) and Eric Dezendorf. A sizeable crew of trivia buffs joined by restaurant regulars, members of San Francisco's Provender Social Club (food business owners and entrepreneurs), friends and coworkers fill up the trivia tables. And most importantly, there are our residents and their families who enjoy the lively competition.
Many of our residents attend Trivia Night and two of them recruited family members to join their team. Intergenerational teams often are the big winners. About a month ago, a team of residents and family members won first place!
Whether racking their brains to name that tune, decoding the picture round or just enjoying a laugh and a drink, everyone is invited to enjoy Trivia Night. We think we have created something pretty special and our residents do too!
The Terrace Room Presents Live Music
by Johanna Leonard
We are excited to report that The Terrace Room Restaurant & Bar has launched a new music program beginning at 7 p.m. on Thursday and Friday nights. Bay Area vocalists and instrumentalists will take the stage and perform music for dining. Featured are standards from the great American songbook, many stylings of jazz, along with sultry Latin music, tango, swing and lots more.
Our live music program harkens back to the post WWII years when The Terrace Room was a hot spot on the City’s entertainment scene with its own house band. It was a regular stop for touring musicians who performed for dancing and dining. Oakland’s local radio station broadcast Terrace Room performances live. Click here for more information.
Today, our residents dine in this same location and enjoy delicious, healthy meals in this stunning restaurant with unparalleled views. Because The Terrace Room is open to the public, dining there brings extra enjoyment to daily living. The atmosphere is welcoming, intergenerational and reflective of the greater Bay Area community.
Listening to great music in a beautiful setting, watching the sunset on the Lake and enjoying a fantastic cocktail or a great meal is now one more thing we can offer those who enjoy The Lake Merritt Independent Senior Living.
Check out the calendar and see what is going on at The Terrace Room Restaurant & Bar.
Writers of Merritt Impress at Public Reading
by Johanna Leonard
Recently, the authors of the newly published Writers of Merritt 2014 dazzled their audience with selections from their beautifully written essays and poetry. Our residents, Betty Ames, Meghan Collins, Toni Gardner, Cynthia Hall, Helen Moss, and Marcia Pratt came to the podium to read selections from their work. There was laughter, lots of emotion and the audience gave a thunderous round of applause at the conclustion of the authors' presentations.
Writers of Merritt 2014 features a smattering of short stories, essays along with different forms of poetry, ranging from prose poems to haiku. The topics include adventure, nature, humor, love and wisdom. It is a book of well-crafted written fiction and non-fiction that reminds us that age is not an impediment to creativity.
Although this group started out as a Creative Writing class, the members quickly morphed into a writer's support group. This gathering of gifted writers meets several times per month to discuss and edit their work under the guidance of their fearless leader and editor, Jacqueline Hampton. Jacqueline ghostwrote Back from the Brink Too: Supporting Your Loved Ones Overcoming Depression (Messenger Publishing 2008) – recipient of the 2009 SANE Australia Book of the Year award and was contributing author for Conquering Panic and Anxiety Disorders: Success Stories, Strategies, and Other Good News (Hunter House 2002). She blogs for The E'ville Eye, honored by the East Bay Express as "The Best Neighborhood Blog". J.R. Hampton is currently working on EIDOLON, a mystery thriller based in San Francisco and Mexico. Jacqueline has worked with our resident authors for over 2 years.
I am happy to announce that the book is available for sale by calling The Lake Merritt at 510-903-3600 or email at firstname.lastname@example.org. We are now waiting impatiently for Volume 2 from our Writers of Merritt.